Brother,

I do believe that the Holy Spirit is our guide and counsellor. But I also think the Holy Spirit works through fellowship and discussion (eg: see acts 15).

I am looking to God for the answers to my questions... I even wrote that in my first post that started this thread: ("each one of us must come to our own peace with God over these things"). But I beleive that the thing's the Holy Spirit has shared with others can be as much a blessing to me as things the Spirit shares directly with me Himself.

Blessings
Cat.