Luke 14:26 "If anyone comes to me and doesn't hate...his wife...he cannot be my disciple."

Lust for the wife must not exceed love for the Holy Trinity. The word for "hate" reflects a Semitic expression not easily translatable into Greek or English, but refers to a love less than the total commitment to God that God demands
Nothing, not even your love for your wife should come between you and your relation to the Holy Trinity