Godspell,

Firstly, God does not call for another way, IMHO. God calls for a celibate liefstyle for anyone who is not married (man and woman). There is no real allocation in my view for "people who cannot control themselves". Like I have said on other posts, the answer is self-control. And if we do sin, which most of us will on the subject, repent and move on. I guess to me, this is more about attempting to do the right thing. I mean, it is one thing to try not to sin, but sin anyway, and quite another to redefine the definition of sin to ease our conscience. God does not expect perfection I do not think, but obedience. And if we fail, He is there to forgive us.