Chris, I apppreciate that opinion, but it is not a biblical one. Your definition of lust is something that you made up. If you apply your definition then maybe you are right, but I mean it fails the logic test. Lusting someone is desiring after them sexually..it does not address the extent of the desire. When you think of a boy or anyone else sexually, inherent in that is that you are desiring them sexually which means you are lusting after them, which is sin.

This is not about feeling guilty to me. It is really an obedience vs disobedience issue. It is also about acknowledging sin and accepting the love, help, and forgiveness from christ regarding that sin.