How can loving another human being be wrong? As long as you recognise the sexual aspects that could possably make it wrong, but have decided not to act on them, then how can it be wrong? I know what your feeling because it's exactly how I felt towards my "L" when we were in an active friendship/relationship. It was wonderful and scarry at the same time. I need not comment on why it was wonderful, but the scarry parts were all about how I felt about him sexually. I didn't want to cross the line and I was scarred I might. But then every time I was with him I behaved myself because I had made up my mind that that was what I was going to do. Sometimes It was difficult, but not so bad that I couldn't handle it. My heart always dictated to me what was the right thing to do and I did it.

We had such a beautiful relationship and had such fun. His hugs and "I love you"'s were always enough for me. Well...I would have loved even more hugs, actually. Can you ever get enough hugs?

There is nothing sinful about having feelings of heart-felt love for another person. You can love anyone you want to love. In fact, there isn't enough love in this world. Wouldn't it be great if we could just pick someone out to love and be free to love that person? I'm not talking about sex...I'm talking about love.

I say...go ahead and love that wonderful boy. God will bless it if you stay within his boundries.

With Love,
Chris