I've been reading about what you've been going thru, but can't really offer any advice. I've been dealing with different issues myself (that I may or may not write about later), and I don't really have any experience in your situation. It appears that your wife doesn't really know what she wants, which I've found fairly typical with women. They often change their mind and keep going back and forth, which drives us men crazy. That's one reason I've never had much success with relationships with women. I get to the point that I figure it just isn't worth the hassle and give up. But in your situation, I hope you both can find a way to make things work.

Dakota