I have heard other BL's say the same kind of thing. That when they are around boys or thier YFs, they experience a real reduction in thier sexual drive. I myself can testify to this. Quite often when I was with my YF I noticed that my heart took over and my sexual feelings really took a huge "back seat", if you will. And even now, when I am around a boy and interacting with him, I do not feel sexual towards him. I feel more like a friendship is developing and I can better appreciate him in ways other than sexual. Although I have never found a complete withdrawl of my sexual attraction...it always comes back latter on and I know it is still with me even when I am around boys.

With Love in Christ,
Chris