Hi Kristian,

Are you saying or implying that you have absolutely no sexual attraction toward boys at all? That everything you feel about them is love of the heart? Man, if that's true then I envy you. I doubt very many of us can say that. Probably most of us have some kind of sexual attraction.

To me, Boylove is taking those feelings for boys and using them in a good, posative way. I do not believe in having sex with a minor, so for me to really love a boy it would be all about the heart. I had such a relationship years ago. It was perhaps the most memorable and beautiful time of my life, and I hope it was the same for my YF.

But I still have to deal with my sexual feelings, and if I must use my hand (right or left), then so be it. Better that then being involved with a boy in that way.

With Love in Christ,
Chris