damn im like going through the same thing right now. i think im obsessing over someone again...yes it's happened before. i hate these damn repeating patterns. this is why i suck at any relationships that involve emotions. i know it's really unhealthy but i duno if i should stop and just cut off all communications because he's a really nice guy and he doesnt deserve this but how do i tone it down without all the obsessing and emotions??? qwerty (or anyone else) please share your wisdom from experience(s)!