This is what I believe. I hope it will help someone. Please comment.

The 1st and 2nd commandment says: 'You full have no other gods before me'.
and dont bow down to anything but God.

As a BLer it is so easy to make boys into little gods and spend much time fantisizing or looking at them on the net. They are beautiful as most of Gods creation is, but we must not make them more important than God. So how do we measure that? I like to think of it in terms of time.If we spend more time looking at boy pics and fantisizing, than what we spend with God (ie: quiet times, praying and reading the bible), there is a problem.

Also, are we as motivated to spend time with God as we are to look at boys? It is very difficult, but we must maintain perspective and put God first.

I am often motivated by the prospects of being a boy again in heaven(that will be heaven for me).

Please share your thaughts
Rick