Live your life the best you can and trust in God to do the rest. I know that sounds simple, but it works...and it really isn't very simple. I know what you mean about movies. I fall in love with those beautiful boys in movies all the time. In fact, every time I watch t.v. I can't help but say "Oh look at him!" when a young cutie comes on the screen. Even durring comercials! I've even got favorite comercials I watch for, for cryin' out loud.

What is this? It's what we make of it; that's what I believe. If you want to believe it's a curse, then it can be a curse. If you want to believe that God can take this love of boys that dwells within us and use it for something good, or enable us to use it for something good, then that can also be a possability. I think it's entirely up to the choices we make and the attitude we have about it. But I think what really drives us nuts is the lonliness we must deal with while we wait for that special young somebody to come into our lives. Even that dosen't have to be so bad if we can learn to reach out to other adults for friendship.

I'm so glad you have found us and I welcome you here with open arms. I am a fellow movie lover, so I'll bet we will have much to talk about. God Bless!

With Love in Christ,
Chris