Kristian is a confused and conflicted BL, and he has said as much a few weeks ago. Even though he's in his 30's, think of him as being 15 and his actions will make sense... or as much sense as a 15yo's actions ever make. He brought up that site because he thought it might help him in some way... but I think we disabused him of that.

Ever-so-subtle topic-dodging to suggest that I try to go easy on him noted. :p

...so, just out of curiosity... in the generalized case, would directing the youth in question to a more mature, reasonable adult be the best suggestion? Or something else?