Thanks Aaron for the advice.
Yes, my YF is CONSTANTLY testing boundaries. I have already told him that it is my apartment & therefore if he shouts (which 1 neighbour already complained about) or messes my place up too much (yes I accept that kids make a mess, but sometimes he's left my place looking like a tornado has been through it) then he's barred for 1 week.
He's a good kid and thinks the world of me (I know that coz his Dad told me).

Yes, he has a crush on me but it will pass. I WONT let anything happen between us, & have his interests at heart 100%. He might like summit to happen, n' part of me wants to do what would please him .......... but that'd be SO WRONG & I'd have to march down the police-station afterwards & tell 'em what happened (a rule/law that is well & truly installed in me). I am compelled to obey that one (thanks to the Tommyknockers) LOL

Kristian