Christian BoyLove Forum #50027
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I just wanna know if this is healthy or not:
My YF is on his Easter vacation from school right now & calls on me at about 9am in the morning. At that time I'm in bed coz I don't start work till 12:30pm. Take 2day for example. I let him into my apartment & let him play on my PC. I told him "I've gotta get dressed now (I was wearing PJ's), so please don't come in my bedroom whilst I get dressed". Next thing he asks "Are ya decent" & I say from my bedroom to him in my sitting-room "No, I'm naked.......... so don't come in". I was juz pullin on my boxers as he pushed open my door, luckily I had em on properly by then. I take it as curiosity. Maybe he at 13 is interested in comparing with other guys. Maybe he's going through the "gay phase". Maybe he was/is just curious. But just want some advice. What I can see though is that if the shoe was on the other foot & I did the same it would be seen as a pedo action. When I'm round his & he is getting changed I respect his privacy. I leave his room & wait till he says it's OK for me to go back in. I can now see how pedos might take advantage of situations. I personally don't give a monkey's if he sees me naked. I was brought up to accept my body & not be ashamed of it. But I realize & abide the rule that for him 2 C me like that is innapropriate. For me at least it aint sexual, but for him I don't know whether it's curiousity or a gay phase attraction/crush. Obviously you won't know either, but maybe I need to post this 2 get it off my chest. Kristian |