I think this bonding thing is the same sort of idea that we have seen a few times on the board recently.

That we need some kind of contact with boys so that we can keep things in perspective and stop it from becoming obsessively sexual.

I relate.

As to kicking Christians in the shin... I don't think so bro. Be patient... especially around here. The guys are trying to look out for you and protect themselves from getting hurt in the process. I encourage you to show some grattitude and patience with the guys here... you really are cared for here Youth. And sometimes you ARE a handful (and I do mean that affectionately).

Blessings
Cat.