I was only just wondering today where you were and here you are. I hope you are well bro :)

Too many BL's would force the relationship
Now that is something important I think. There is a difference between enjoying a boy as he comes to us and trying to take more from him because of our own sexual agendas.

The question I still ask is: "Is it appropriate for us to put ourselves in situations (eg: working with kids) so that we can have more oppertunity for these spontaneous moments? or is that also pursuing a sexual agenda?"

Blessings
Cat.