Thankx Deliverance,
You put what I was trying to say VERY well.

What's strange is that 10mins after I posted the original message I get an email from my YF telling me that his parents feel we're spending too much time together & want to cut it down. I agree with them in many ways, coz he's becomming dependant on me & would be with me 24/7 if I allowed it. Only 2nite he asked me if he could sleep-over, & I said "No". He immediately replied "Why..........is it in case yer come onto me?" (make a sexual move), to which I replied "That works both ways........ it's also coz you might come onto me". He of course said "why would I wanna do that?" to which I replied "-name- in the time we've spent together 2day how many times have yer lightly punched me in the crotch?"...... his reply..... "a couple"..... my response.... "to most people doing that would be classed as a come-on".
I have told him that it isn't appropriate, but he still does it. It aint so much a punch as a 'feel' using his fist. I told him that it isn't acceptable.
Personally it dun't bother me, but I CANNOT allow it to continue. Take it for example that I did the same to him it would be classed as sexual assault, but he can't see that. He just replies "how can it be touching-you-up coz I'm a kid". "if you did it to me then it would be, but coz I'm a kid it aint".
(he's almost 13 by the way).

I've just emailed him to say that maybe we should limit our contact to 3 or 4 times per week, & that when we see eachother it should be constructive stuff & not just hanging about round my place.

Any comments appreciated,
Kristian