Thanks for that Blackstone.
I'm unsure 2 be honest what his sexuality is. There are some gay indicators but also some straight ones. Anyway, that aint my problem. My only thing is to be the best of a friend I can be to him, to be here for him when he needs advice, & to accept him for whatever he turns out to be.
I know at least he is gay friendly, as another boy in the area I live in (and a kid I play football with) has opened up that he is gay, & my YF aint at all phased. Personally I feel that the other boy is going through the "gay phase" seeing as he's 13 (personally I don't believe that sexuality can be set-in-stone till someone is bout 17). I know with myself that even at age 9 I was getting erections in the showers with ta other boys, but the past is gone......... with God I am a new creation & becoming more & more A-Sexual with each step forward. I know that that is the way that God wants it to be where I am concerned.
Yes, I might be curious, but always have to remember "Curiosity killed the cat". What we see & hear determines what comes out (3 wise monkey's). I'd honestly rather have my balls chopped off than ever do anything bad.

Kristian
I've told him that even lightly punching me in the groin is inappropriate, & he accepted that.

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