Cat,
One fing bout masterbation........... yep I reckon it's OK, but what is un-said is that what yer thinking about when yer reach orgasm is what you'll become attracted 2 (it's juz the way it works).
I know the Catholic Church is against Masterbation, but then what would they rather have: A contolled mind, or the subconscious mind via wet dreams.

My YF already has told me he masterbates, n' I told him I do too & it's perfectly normal. I warned him about the dangers of what he's thinking about when he reaches orgasm, coz it'll set his sexuality. He's aware of all that stuff, juz as I am. He even told me that he produces sperm which for a 12 year old MUST BE A RECORD!!!!

Anyway I'll end there.

Nothing sinister, all innocent,
Over n' out,
Kristian