Cat,
I know that I won't take it further with this kid, simply coz I know that if I did I'd HAVE TO go to the police station straight afterwards & tell them what happened. Besides that I realize any sexual contact could screw a kid ap psychologically for the rest of their life. He might request it, and even enjoy/like it at the time, but ya can bet yer bottom dollar that a few years down the line he's be self-harming, maybe even wrist slitting due to his feelings of guilt at inducing it/allowing it to happen. I'm NOT going to allow anyone I love to go down that path.