KRISTEN... BE VERY CAREFUL!!!!


I agree with Marc that this behaviour in a kid his age is very normal. Don't raz him about it, reassure him he's normal and TEACH HIM APPROPRIATE BOUNDARIES.

The big question is ... are you really being honest with yourself about your self-control and sexual interest in this kid.

As minor attracted we can let ourselves enjoy a flirty kid to both our detriments.

If he starts touching you in a sexual manner it can have devestating social consequences... and are you really sure it won't lead to something more serious.

My advice is to inform him that touching you like that is NOT appropriate. Accept his feelings but discipline his actions. Encourage him to find appropriate ways to release his sexual arrousal. If you want to be Christian about it... that means saving his sex play for his wife.

I don't know what your position on masturbation is... myself I think its ok... as long as you do it solo.

Its great that he can be honest with you about these things... but you are the adult here. You can take the lead to protect him from behaviour that you will all end up regretting.

Blessings
Cat.