hello Cat,

Someone wrote a post I thought it was you or another moderator about the best view to take in the boylove subject it was very interesting. Unfortunately I'm not very organised right now which makes a lot of things uneasy like having a structurised dialoge here. I can't find the post and I doubt whether it is still relevant (in that form at least).

Anyway, yes I an a boylover but also a girllover and a manlover and womanlover. But boylove has been more empty than love for other people because I feel it has an atmosphere of 'forbiddenness' which gave it a special place which I didn't choose. Like before you know it love for boys would make you considered a sick person. And I want to prevent that from happening in all cases. And the Lord has shown me how because there is nothing sick about it on it self only I need to take into account what I want and how to handle that and it must work the right way. And then nobody will consider me a sick person, I won't actually be a sick person because every human being has some sort of love for boys. So lyers could be a problem, people who don't know how to handle things. But they can never have much of a case and are generally very weak and somehow disturbed. Which would make them open to consolidation which is very much on the side of people who honour the Lord.

What you asked in the post I copied I couldn't answer directly because it is so controversial. So I asked you to just pray over it what the answer would be. I said that also because I feel loving boys is so socially isolating and problem making if people lose hope or make mistakes. I think I have found the answer to that so I think its a good thing to strengthen others with that. I feel something like that will provide a way out in whatever problem 'boylove' is causing.

And another thing: in scientific philosophy (which I study) the following vision is established so plain university speaking: "women and understood love for boys is a good thing in life to have" But of course not in the way the bible warns us about so in a dissolute way.

I want to say that I think not many people can understand how. Because that sort of thing IS dissolute, right? Still it is true and when someone want so find out and understand what that is the Lord will certainly reveal it as he has promised. So not even other people needed in this sort of thorny questions:

1 John 2,27
........the anointing which you received from him remains in you, and you don’t need for anyone to teach you. But as his anointing teaches you concerning all things, and is true, and is no lie, and even as it taught you, you will remain in him.

greetings,
zxc