Roman Catholic, and yes he did take a vow of celibacy. The 14 year old wasn't very mature for his age, but he did have a summer job helping at the church. So he was responible in a way.

The priest came on to the boy. The boy never indicated that he wanted this type of relationhip, he never indicated he was interested in the priest, and if he wasn't so scared he would have said no.

Now, let's imagine that 14 years have passed and the boy feels betrayed, hurt, violated, that part of him has been taken away, ect...

What now? What do you say to someone who feels that way? What can you say that will make them feel like a whole person again? Is there anything that can be done?