I spoke with my fiance last night about everything I've been reading. I must say I am captivated with all of you. At first I was repulsed, I will openly admit that, but all of you are people, and I don't believe you mean any harm. I must say that all of this has given me a different perspective on things, and for that I am grateful. I hope I do not take anything you say out of context, but of course I have questions for you.

Do you believe that if you hadn't been in a minor adult relationship as a child that you would have the attractions you do?

What advice would you give to someone who was victimized by a minor/adult relationship? (meaning the child was sexualized)

Does your wife know how you feel? And if so how does she feel about it?

I'm sure I'll have more questions later...

Thank you