One must ponder the thought, that if we are asking not to be a boylover, we are asking God to do our work for us, "God don't make me lust" thats the vibe i would get, and if there is a 'cure' one must also dawn the thought, that if we ask to be changed by God, what does God have to loose, and wouldn't he have already changed us? Or mabey its because God doesn't want to change us, maybe he wants us tp have a bit more SELF-CONTROL