When we say boylove isn't a sin. We mean that the attraction to a boy isn't a sin. It just isn't. I'm sure you are attracted to many people, that doesnt make it a sin. The sin comes in with the lust or the action.

I personally believe that sex a child in any case, for any reason, is wrong. I believe totally that God can chagne me any time he wants. I can't do anything to hurry him up or make him do it. I also believe that just because he can, doesn't mean he will take the attraction away. So, as a boylover, all we can do is rely on the scripture that promises that any temptation we face, God creates a way out. And of course pray that is if it His will, to change us. That is all we can do. So when I see a boy that I am attracted to, I look away and pray that I don't lust over that boy.