It may just be me, but I don't think you understand fully, which is to be expected, this is afterall, a learning experience.

The love is most certainly like that of a God Parent, but in some cases it is much more. We don't JUST have a sexual attraction, it is much more. Actually, most people on this board probably try and push the sexual attractions behind and let the caring love come through. Thats why 'd' says some boylovers would be the best babysitters, because they care more than your average teenage girl-babysitter. The love they have for the child isn't a forced love, it just comes naturally... and I personally think that responsible boylovers who deal with their attractions properly, find a way to show their love unlike anyone else can.