Here's the URL from the post I quoted:

http://cblf.org/cbfarchive/danieljames.htm

It was directed toward you guys. I'll make sure I post it on my board. Thank you for pointing that out.

With that said, your post was very well organized and logical. My fiance is 6 years older than I am. When we first met (at a bar) we didn't know our age difference was that large. We both thought the other was older or younger. Now that I know more about his history it doesn't surpise me that he's attracted to younger people, such as myself. I believe this is my fascination with boylovers. My fiance and myself were both molested as children. It really touches a soft spot to hear that there are websites out there that promote such behavior. When I first started reading your archives and post all I read were the poems and songs that were geared towards young boys, and all I could do was think, why? Since speaking with Godspell and reading your post it has become clear that there are cases out there where a man is attracted to a boy, but doesn't act on such impulses and is trying to find a way to release that energy in the best possible way without harm. But now I wonder, what is considered a boy?

It's a shame that there isn't more research into pedo, but it's a very emotional subject as you have pointed out. There is a case, and as soon as I find the link I'll post it, of a 17 year old male who received oral sex from a 15 year old girl and now he is in jail. When he is released he will be filed as a sexual predator, and his life is ruined. Do I believe any of that should have happened to him? No, of course not. Do I believe a 60 year old man should be locked away for having sexual relations with a 14 year old, indeed I do. The difference is the younger persons age. Do I believe 18 should be the legal age of consent, no, but it shouldn't be 14 either.