Not surprisingly, FS pussed out... lol. Too bad, really; Jess was promising to be an interesting convo. I didn't expect a friend, but then again, I'm not looking for one, either.

So, I guess here it is.

I've gone through some of your site and it reminds me of other boy love websites I've come across. What makes this website different? Your motives?

Just the fact that flaming people for being Christian is less acceptable here. It's complete anarchy within the "seven simple rules" - if I showed up and wanted to talk about the satanic ritual I performed last night and how much I like large breasts... as long as I followed those rules, there'd be nothing to stop me.

I feel that this website condones a behavior that not only is dangerous to children, but to the men who post here.

I disagree with the media characterization of human sexuality, and feel that forcing relationships underground destroys the community support and feedback which is vital to healthy relationships.

It's like giving an alcoholic a fake beer, even though he's not drinking the real stuff he's still playing with the idea, and that to me is just as dangerous.

Please explain to me how this is different?

Well, for starters, I hold that your "compulsive alcoholic" analogy is false. I have no idea one way or another whether *you* have nonvolitional urges to conk people over the head and have your way with their unconscious form. I *do* know that *most* people... don't.

...as mythoheroic as the "struggling to control the uncontrollable" bullshit is - from "the hulk" to cu cullain - it's also pretty much basically a myth.