I'm not sure Cat's wife did know what she got herself into. I think Cat has done his part to be honest about who he is. I think she owes him a loving ear, and I know it's not an easy thing to live with. I do know other couples who have to live without the best sexual relationship. Those that are handicapped or have been injured physically can't give like they did. I know couples who have to deal with other addictions. The point is that, they are together for better or for worse. I think that's the final point you have to consider when you marry. What else can be done, than to pray about the difficulties, continue to be faithful, and keep each other accountable, given the problems faced day by day. According to Paul, the only grounds for divorce is unfaithfulness. I'll find the scripture when I have more time. I think there's also scripture about divorce if your mate isn't Christain, but I'm not sure. That's all I remember for now. It is like it is. The Bible is clear about relationships and the bonding of man and woman became God's gift to Man before sin entered the world. It is among the most Biblical and sacred of unions.

Blessings,
Oliver