Hey Guys,

I haven't had a chance to say welcome aboard so far... so ... WELCOME ABOARD.

Jase I particularly enjoyed your comments to my "friends if not lovers" post.

I try and be the best husband I can be and I work hard to overcome my boy desires... but I realise probably the best I can do is manage my sexuality... I can't change it... God knows I've tried... if its going to change then HE is going to have to do the miracle.

My pastor today was encouraging me to say ... this is my sexuality 'currently'.. and not just this is my sexuality. I kind of like that even though I have gotten past hoping that things will change.

It kinda hurts to hope they will... I don't want to keep getting dissapointed.... but we must pray and not lose heart (cf the persistant widow).

Sandalboyfan... I used to love wearing sandals as a kid... still do actually. I saw a really great looking boy in sandals just the other day... I must say they were most complimentary to him. (hehe)

Anyway guys,
Welcome and much blessing to you
Cat.