Hey Chris!
Well, I already talked to you that I would not advise you to come out. But then again, that is poor advice as I am not you. That is almost like emailing a soldier and telling him whether or not to kill the guy infront of him - there are so many things that have to be taken into account that a person removed from the situation cannot give accurate advice. And, much in the same manner, time is of the essence. So really, if you decide that it is in your best interest and in the best interest of others than I support you in your choice. And you have my prayers (but I hope you don't need them). Hope all goes well, and to hear from you soon!

Graces of God,
Deliverance