One of the the things I've kinda seen in the online BL community is the idolisation of boys.

Boys are so perfect because...

Hey I'm guilty of this myself. I see them as perfect too.

Boys are refreshing... they are WYSIWYG... they are less pretentious than adults... but... I think its interesting that everyone who seems to believe this boys are so perfect thing... just also happens to be sexually attracted to them.

I appreciate your encouragements... I do.

oh... one more thing... "I have no desire to "be" a boy"... but then you say... "Adults find my energy annoying".... hmmm.... sounds like I can hear a big hint of "I'm still a big kid" in there.

Blessings
Cat.

PS... I don't see NT judgement as punitive...(Jesus did take all our punishments) I see it as consequential. We sow to the flesh... we reap destruction. One thing leads to another. It's as Paul says in 1 Cor...(chap 6 I think)... All things are lawful... not all things are helpful.