Hmm, after rereading what I typed, I believe I didn't get down what I hoped. No, I most definitely haven't been able to truly dance the two dances, and there is a good chance that I, nor any other human, will be able to. But what I was getting at is that, don't you as a bler (as I do) feel like a hero for being faced with this impossible challenge? It's kinda like going to the olympics - you probably won't win gold, you might not even place. But you still feel like you've accomplished something special by making it to the olympics because what you did was that little bit harder than the others.

No, I'm not saying that BLers have it the worst in the world and then discounting all the troubles all other sexualities have to face. But rather in the light of being the only sexuality who has to juggle the two dances, I think we seem pretty special - don't you? Reading his response for some reason made me feel special and look at things a little differently, and even though I haven't achieved it, it still made me feel special for trying. Just like in the olympics.

Talk to you soon, my little furry friend!
Graces of God,
Deliverance