Youth, I wrote you a long response further down the list. Please take this into consideration as you read it:

"As a kid, i'll be honest, i didn't fell as if i was always cared for. Thats my objective for my YF at the moment."

I know exactly what you mean by that. In a way, you feel like you're doing this for the little kid inside of you. It's good therapy, and it's good for the kid you're loving too. I'm all for it.

Try to picture yourself in my shoes for a moment. I see a teenage boy (you) who is going through stuff that I went through a little over a decade ago. I have the same objective for you as you do for your YF.

Hope that made sense.