of course heartbreak seems improbable right now. you love him because he's a boy...at least partially. and when he starts growing older. things will become harder. if the real reason you love him is because of who he is then you'll be fine. but if you love him because he's a boy, and he loves you for who you are (like normal gays do) then there will be trouble. love usually starts out all passionate and easy but never lasts that way. i bet people who are married for like 50 years rarely feel the way you do now.

it's also easier to say oh yea heartbreak is ok...i can take it. you duno how much it sucks until it actually happens. and i bet a lot of bl's know especially how tough it is.