It's slightly discouraging to hear that you have begun to assimilate that as a part of your identity by moving in to forums where people whose identity is based around that disorder reside. I hope it's just curiosity and you will move beyond that.

But aren't we all doing exactly the same thing with our BL attractions and this particular forum? If this is OK, why is it not OK for Aspergers?

We all want to understand ourselves better, and if a forum on Aspergers is helpful to gaakz, I certainly don't see the harm.

Blessings,
Rainboy