This is a very good reply. I hope the hateful people that lurk these forums read it.

Yes, the word "grooming" stabbed me the first time I saw it, on the Wikisposure website where it's talking about abbreviations, and it says something like "YF: short for Young Friend. A child that the pedophile is grooming". Such a passive-aggressively awful term.

I have a slightly different way of thinking about things. I know very well that I am a mentally, socially, emotionally normal/stable person, and only very emotionally/mentally disturbed people would commit rape (which is essentially what we're being accused of), and therefore the percentage of pedophiles (who are also normal people) who commit rape is the same or similar percentage as hetero/homosexual people who commit rape; ie, not very many at all.