I really don't get what all the fuss about pedophilia (hate that word) is... I'm 16, I live in the UK, I'm Christian and I have a lover who's going to be 42 this July... Mum doesn't know, and all the kids at school think I'm a bit of a wierdo, but I don't mind. I'm happy, and, in the long run, isn't that all that matters? Just glad I'm not alone, that's all... I know Jesus loves everyone regardless of their sexual orientation, and just knowing that always makes me cheer up.