I've often felt that when a BL is living his life without any boys in it everyone is missing out. There are many great organisations - say local church, big brothers and scouts to mention but a few - that desperately need new volunteers. And a lot of beautiful, brilliant boys who are also in need of adult companionship.

Also, I can't help but to think that when one acts against his nature he's harming himself. Even if one doesn't agree with every and each feeling he has, he should work with what he has, not against it.

So, my advice: Get involved! Volunteer! Do something good with what God has given you :)


Dwain