Of course its not the 20's and we all know that once your feelings of attraction to boys begin at what whatever age then those feelinsg stay with you for life but I'm only reffering to the way society perceives us guys and that from the ages of 20 to at least 70 people might perceive men who approach their kids as a potential threat but does it change later once you hit that age where you seem to be more of a fragile grandfather figure ?