A local shopkeeper is a BL and he gives me special discounts when I am buying stuff for my YF (with the latter present).

When my YF is not around he jokes about the sex acts my yf "needs" to get from me ("he just needs to be taken over your knee and given a good spanking"), and I just smile. My yf is not gay and doesn't need any sex acts from another male. My BL friend does indeed do all those sex acts with boys just moments above the legal age, but I am content to be celibate boy-wise.

I do appreciate having someone around who admires my AF/YF relationship.