I have at least one... possibly two other BLs around my yf.

and I do get jealous.

They both like to spend time with my yf and it's not in a competitive way at all... but... I do have feelings. When they are spending time with him I think, "MY yf!" in a uber-protective way. But I don't react on these feelings. I put them aside and remind myself that there's no harm at all in sharing him. I want him to be friends with these other guys.

From another perspective ... I feel like I have a super advantage over the other guys.... that I'm a more confident BL than either of them so I get certain privelages with my yf that they don't... telling him I love him for instance. And I get way more hang out time with him than they do.... and he's really my friend rather than just an aquaintance they get on well with and really like. I do get a selfish buzz out of that.

So yeah... I relate.

Blessings
Cat.