I posted earlier about a difficult situation I had to face when a religious friend of my yf took it upon himself to warn my yf and his mother that I was a pedophile and that he should also inform the police. But with the advice from Cat I had a chat with my yf's mother who was able to ignore the implication and as Cat also said it gave me a feeling of liberation.

I can't wait to hear the outcome of your dilemma

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