Oh no, I am not trivializing at all.

I could go into the pain of my own 16-22 year age period to try to prove it, but I would find it all hard to talk about. I had a Scott too, by another name.

The money to move to a big city came from a small student loan and a summer job that "Scott's" dad managed to wangle for me.

But really, the name of the pain was Scott. By that other name. You've felt it.