I think I know what you mean. Doubtlessly some people take advantage of children because they can't get people their own age. But that's just not the way it is with boylovers. At least not that I can tell from myself.

All I can say from myself is that I have in some way 'perverted' my sexuality for the sheer fun of doing it. I don't know if that's supposed to be a sin or not, but I don't really regret it. I did at one point but all it taught me was to stop being a baby and get over it.

To me, lust is a wonderful epic of divine creativity, and I figure that it's fine to explore any weird and wonderful fantasies you have provided that it doesn't hurt you or make your heart ache. But then again, you won't know until you've done it so now we're back to the whole conservative vs. liberal argument.