He endured the Cross.

I just had this epiphany. Why not just focus on all the Blessings God is bestowing on me and not the suffering. Christ focused on what was beyond the Cross which gave him the strength to endure it. Our struggles can be to us our own cross but because of the joy we see after the cross we can and must endure it. I don't know what brings you joy or how God is blessing you but focus on that and endure.